i have been told that i need to post about someone my best friend doesn't already know about. so here's one for ya:
fred lived in wisconsin. he was the first ever match i got to open communication with on eHarmony. (the rules of eHarmony are convoluted and i'm not gonna get into them here. just know that it takes awhile to get to open communication.) fred was a city councilman for the town he lived in and was only 29 years old. pretty cool for a younger guy to have run for office and won, huh? yeah, not really. he was a bouncer as his night job. hmm. seems odd.
so, we try to connect thru im'ing. usually end up missing each other. finally we get a chance to talk, but only for a few minutes. didn't really find anything out about each other in that time, so, whatever. we'll try again. well, we never really have a chance to connect and i'm thinking "maybe if we set a time in advance, we can actually talk". so i run the idea past him and all i get is "ok". no "what time?", no "i'm available at this time", no nothing. so, i figure, what the hell is this? i'm done. so i close the match on eHarmony at a time when he was supposedly not online. not on purpose, but it's important to the story. within 2 minutes of closing the match, i get an im from him asking why i closed the match. wtf? we never connected, he never even seemed interested, i don't wanna waste my time. i say all that to him, "nicely", and he doesn't say anything back. par for the course. so, i remove him from my friend's list and move on. don't even give it a second thought. until like 5 months later. i'm talking to my sister online and we both have webcams so we have them turned on. all of a sudden i get a request to view webcam from fred... huh? what's that all about? is he hoping that i'm some porn star who whores herself online on the weekends? yeah, needless to say he got a big fat decline and block.
why do i get all the freaks?
fred lived in wisconsin. he was the first ever match i got to open communication with on eHarmony. (the rules of eHarmony are convoluted and i'm not gonna get into them here. just know that it takes awhile to get to open communication.) fred was a city councilman for the town he lived in and was only 29 years old. pretty cool for a younger guy to have run for office and won, huh? yeah, not really. he was a bouncer as his night job. hmm. seems odd.
so, we try to connect thru im'ing. usually end up missing each other. finally we get a chance to talk, but only for a few minutes. didn't really find anything out about each other in that time, so, whatever. we'll try again. well, we never really have a chance to connect and i'm thinking "maybe if we set a time in advance, we can actually talk". so i run the idea past him and all i get is "ok". no "what time?", no "i'm available at this time", no nothing. so, i figure, what the hell is this? i'm done. so i close the match on eHarmony at a time when he was supposedly not online. not on purpose, but it's important to the story. within 2 minutes of closing the match, i get an im from him asking why i closed the match. wtf? we never connected, he never even seemed interested, i don't wanna waste my time. i say all that to him, "nicely", and he doesn't say anything back. par for the course. so, i remove him from my friend's list and move on. don't even give it a second thought. until like 5 months later. i'm talking to my sister online and we both have webcams so we have them turned on. all of a sudden i get a request to view webcam from fred... huh? what's that all about? is he hoping that i'm some porn star who whores herself online on the weekends? yeah, needless to say he got a big fat decline and block.
why do i get all the freaks?
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